Yes, Virginia, ADHD Is Real

There’s been quite a dust-up at the New York Times website over the issue of ADHD.  Is it real? Is it a cultural by-product? Is it a grand marketing scheme by the major pharmaceutical companies? The answer to all of these question is “yes.” “Yes” it is real. “Yes” it is a cultural by-product and [...]

My Head Hurts: Life As A Natural Born CTD

Must ADHDers struggle with the same issues? Admittedly, I am not like every other ADHDer so perhaps my situation is unique. For example, I’m quite good-looking, intelligent, witty, entertaining, creative and modest. I was also diagnosed late in life so the benefits of ADHD (in addition to modesty), such as the inability to handle money, [...]

I Can’t Decide On A Title: “Memory, Anger & ADHD” or “Take This Gift and Shove It” or “Taming Your ADHD”

I’m pleased to report that the Verizon issue, as described in my post Don’t Worry…Get Angry, has been resolved. On March 9, 2011 I received the following email: In case you can’t read that email (even after clicking on the image), here’s the text of the email: Dear Valued Verizon Customer, We have processed your [...]

Anger Management & Handling the “Are You An Idiot?” Problem

In response to my post, Don’t Worry…Get Angry, Jay (his website is Addled: Grappling with Adult ADD) tells us that while his medications help him deal with frustrating situations — he doesn’t blow up — it does nothing to reduce the anger. He feels paralyzed, stewing in his juices, unable to get passed the anger. [...]

Don’t Worry…Get Angry

I use Verizon for all of my communication needs. I have four cell phones (one for each family member), one land line and one FIOS internet connection. I receive two monthly bills. One bill is for my cell phones, the other bill combines the charges for my land line and FIOS internet…well…it used to. On [...]

The Public Record of a Personal Transformation: Blogging About Adult ADHD

I am now in my fourth year of blogging about Adult ADHD. My thoughts about ADHD have changed. I’ve entered my post-ADHD phase.

Have You Seen This Missing…And Angry…ADHDer?

I receive emails from many of my blog readers and I’ve decided to use the opening of this post to respond to a number of them. To those who have been wondering if I have been leaving her satisfied or wanting more, the answer is, “satisfied.” Therefore I have no need for those enlargement pills [...]

A.D.D. Rage or The Centerless Facets

In an earlier entry I described the A.D.D. personality as being, not a coherent unit, but consisting of “facets” of a personality. The daily struggle is to keep particular facets in public view – the “good dad” facet or the “good worker” facet.1 The facets are much like facets on a jewel, i.e., they are [...]

Two days of A.D.D. Rage

Theoretically, being on Wellbutrin should have prevented this from happening. Nonetheless, I spent two days in an absolute rage and now, at day 3 (this is being written on Monday July 16), I still have some residual anger. It started, as all A.D.D. rage episodes seem to do, with the smallest of triggers, the proverbial [...]

That need for crisis…and hate…and focus

That, perhaps, explains much of the A.D.D. life…that need for crisis. It’s as if you are not alive unless there is a crisis: job related; family related, politically related (like a crisis of who to vote for…as if there were a real choice). But the point is that there must be crisis…tension…some sort of angst. [...]